November 2009

To: Partners of Love in Action Int'l
Re:  Update

Dear Friends:

 

Our update is a little early this year.  I will be going to Croatia in November to welcome our fourth grandchild.  It’s a girl – Laura and James’ third daughter.

 

Volunteers

Our angels are dealing with their own health problems but continue to give in the midst of their own difficulties.  Bob Striler, Carlos Bennett and John Jurisich wore out their welcome in the hospital this year.  They continue to amaze us.

 

There are two areas that receive a significant amount of aid because of Orley White.  He gathers clothes, toys, furniture and household furnishings and delivers them to Mable and James Armstrong in West Dallas.  He also delivers many things to a Hispanic church in Garland.

 

Parkland Patients

Palliative patients remain a priority in our giving.  Bob Striler visits and walks beside them through this dark time in their lives.  Every patient has different needs.  We received a call in March that Ruby, a leukemia patient, was here from Kenya visiting her son.  Her husband had returned but Ruby had waited thinking she would return a short time later.  By the time she was ready to go, her disease had progressed so much that she was unable to fly alone.  “Could we provide an escort?” was the request.   Airline Ambassadors referred us to a young woman who agreed to escort Ruby.  We paid for airline surcharges and hotel.

 

We were contacted a short time after the trip and informed that Ruby had been delayed in route but had finally arrived at her home in Kenya.  She was able to see her children but died a few days after her arrival.  We were all shocked and dismayed.  Then we remembered – the mission we set out on with Ruby was accomplished.

 

Croatia

James and/or Laura Albright travel each month with others to take food to the elderly in a part of Croatia that was heavily damaged during the war.  Because they are of the wrong ethnicity, help that might otherwise be available by the government is not available to them.  LIAI provides the resources for much of this effort.

 

               

 


 

Matthew

A woman from Dallas Crisis Intervention called us in June regarding a gentleman who had been in the Bridge shelter for two years.  Matthew was born into a family of privilege, educated, and working in a high-ranking government position when militants overthrew his government.  Of the 4 million people who were killed, many were brutally executed.  He survived only because he was in the US visiting at the time the hostility began.  Matthew was granted asylum but out of fear for his life even here he began working and living under the radar – no contact with fellow countrymen, etc.        

 

 In 2007, Matthew had a heart attack and a short time later lost both legs below the knee due to diabetes.  While he was in the hospital (in and out for an extended period of time) he was evicted from his apartment and all his belongings were destroyed.

 

We have been supporting Matthew while getting his papers replaced.  Prosthetics are in the works, he moves into his new apartment later this week, and he’s planning to work again.  This is a story of a man who lost his life as he knew it and now has a new life because of the kindness of strangers.

 

As I reflect on this man’s loss, I am overwhelmed by sadness.  He was never able to tell his family goodbye or grieve the death of his friends and colleagues who were executed. He lost everything as a young man.  Thirty years later he lost his health and ability to care for himself.

 

Here’s the question:  Who were you in the Matthew story?  Were you the complacent judge who gave the apartments permission to evict him or the compassionate woman at Crisis Intervention who prayed before she called that we would say ‘yes’ to helping Matthew.  Were you the rigid apartment manager who was not willing to take into consideration the terrible circumstances of Matthew’s life in evicting him or were you one of the many people who are now making it possible for Matthew to rebuild his life

 

In Conclusion

It’s amazing how our awareness of what we’re doing here changes with the passing of our years.  Thirty years ago I knew the words but with very limited understanding.  Today I understand there are no words to adequately express the wonderful, joyous, grace-filled life that is ours.  We are separated from it by our own blindness.  Imagine the joy of seeing Matthew’s tear-filled eyes with each new step into his new life.  “I’m not alone anymore,” he often tells us.   “I love every one of you.”


Thank you for your support.

 

God bless,


Rae England