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Dear
Friends,
A Nation in Grief In the face of death, hatred, and terrible loss of life and innocence, I find myself needing to put my hand over my mouth. That is the sense I have made of the hush that fell over DFW Airport on the morning of September 11. Suddenly, there was an absence of airplane engines, televisions, P.A. announcements, and laughter – only the sound of people walking slowly as if they had lost all sense of direction. We waited for hours for the return of our bags and so I withdrew and pondered what was happening. I am reminded of a day in Sarajevo, April 1994, during an uneasy ceasefire. We walked through a city that had been under siege for two years. There were no sounds of children at play or laughter. Even the animals and birds were gone. I remember thinking, “This is a city in grief. ”When we suffer a loss, there is naturally a time of grieving. Then we return to our lives – change forever. The Life of One While the world was reeling from the tragedy of September 11, Bobby White was in the struggle of his life – how to face death with some semblance of grace. Suspecting that her patient was dying alone, Bobby’s doctor gave his name to Bill Waugh. During the next few months, Bob Striler visited or called Bobby every day. In the midst of the most depressing of circumstances, we saw in extraordinary ways, the Spirit’s movement among us – especially in the spaces and silence that we made for Him. His daughter’s worst fear that he might die without her knowing, was laid to rest. Bobby was reconciled with his son and grandson. A sweet and sad time of reconciling with his former wife took place just weeks before his death. Bobby died knowing his family loved him and that it was well with his soul. Bobby's graveside service was simple and filled with such sweetness. With a gentle fall breeze in our faces, we listened to Willie Nelson’s version of Just a Closer Walk with Thee and Amazing Grace. I kept thinking, “How precious is this moment.” |
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